Kundali matching is that essential custom that people devote all their beliefs to, before marriage. It is said to be the single most necessary custom performed before the main wedding ceremony. This marriage has been attributed to the success of many Hindu marriages.
Need for Kundali matching in Arranged Marriages.
The basic reason why this custom has been poured so much attention since years is because of arranged marriages being a very prominent form of marriage in India. Most marriage occurring here arises from the decisions of family and relatives. How many Bollywood movies have we seen where the parents decide who their children should marry? That is still the case for the majority of people in India.
What couple in such marriages suffers with is their lack of knowledge about the person they are supposed to spend their life with. Though, unlike before, the decided couple do get to spend some time together and talk about their future expectations and dreams. And yet, any sort of conversation, no matter how long, can determine how compatible they would be when different situations arise. That is where Kundali matching came in with its shining armour.
Kundali matching checks the compatibility of the two individuals as per their personality traits. It calculates their compatibility based on their emotions, preferences and life decisions. It also tries to predict how they, together as a couple, would conclude or handle conflict. It predicts the compatibility of the two individuals concerning their temper as well.
Need for Kundali Matching in Love Marriages.
The problem that a couple of arranged marriages face, is very minimal in a couple of love marriages. A couple of love marriages have already spent a lot amount of time being together, probably even had been through many conflicts and different hurdles. They almost know all there is to know about their partner. They know the areas where they are compatible with each other and where they aren’t. There is already love, trust, friendliness, attraction, attachment, desire for each other and vulnerability between the two individual.
Hence, this makes anyone think what is even the need for getting Kundali matched when the couple are in love?
The answer is simple. No matter how much one knows, how much one discusses, there is always something that stays unnoticed.
Kundali matching notices all the aspects of a marriage, even the ones that are badly hidden. Moreover, unlike the couple who can only discuss the future based on the present circumstances, Kundali matching does more than that. As time changes, so do one’s life and the circumstances they live in. What Kundali matching does is, it predicts the couple’s future and how they would handle whatever it is to come. It predicts the couple’s compatibility, relationship quotient and their satisfaction, happiness within the relationship, based on the never constant circumstance, based on the hurdles of the future.
Unnoticed Aspects.
As mentioned, the couples could talk, but there are some things that most often go unnoticed or unheeded in their discussions. Be it a couple of arranged marriage or be it one out of love, these are the few things that Kundali matching focuses on, which the couples might fail to.
The future hurdles.
Financial stability.
Career prospects.
Chances of having an offspring.
The health of the offspring.
Compatibility of the individual and the in-laws.
Future health problems.
Drastic accidents.
Life challenging difficulties.
Infidelity and/or extra-marital affairs.
Lack of love, understanding, vulnerability.
Sexual desire and/or satisfaction.
Presence of dosh.
Low Gunn Milan.
Conclusion.
Marriage is a life-changing experience. A wrong decision can ruin one’s entire life. Kundali matching is what saves a person from committing a mistake that can affect their, their partner’s and their family’s health, finances, comfort and a lot more. A right partner can bring a lot of happiness and satisfaction to a family. Without Kundali matching, one is risking a lot more than they can afford. And thus it is highly advised, that no matter where one’s belief lie, one should get their Kundali matched before marrying.